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Holding the Man
Holding the Man

Holding the Man (2015)

77% User Rating
2h 8min
Drama

"A love story for everyone."

Tim and John fell in love while teenagers at their all-boys high school. John was captain of the football team, Tim an aspiring actor playing a minor part in Romeo and Juliet. Their romance endured for 15 years in the face of everything life threw at it – the separations, the discrimination, the temptations, the jealousies and the losses – until the only problem that love can't solve tried to destroy them.

Neil ArmfieldDirector

Cast

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Ryan Corr

Ryan Corr

Timothy Conigrave

Craig Stott

Craig Stott

John Caleo

Guy Pearce

Guy Pearce

Dick Conigrave

Sarah Snook

Sarah Snook

Pepe Trevor

Anthony LaPaglia

Anthony LaPaglia

Bob Caleo

Geoffrey Rush

Geoffrey Rush

Barry

Camilla Ah Kin

Camilla Ah Kin

Lois Caleo

Kerry Fox

Kerry Fox

Mary Gert Conigrave

Tom Hobbs

Tom Hobbs

Peter Craig

Jacob Collins-Levy

Jacob Collins-Levy

Andrew

Tony Rickards

Tony Rickards

Mr. O'Connell

Lee Cormie

Lee Cormie

Eric

PiaGrace Moon

PiaGrace Moon

Prue

Tegan Higginbotham

Tegan Higginbotham

Gina

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Luke Christopoulos

Chris Caleo (13 years)

Santo Tripodi

Santo Tripodi

Michael Caleo

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Tessa de Josselin

Anna Conigrave

Reviews (1)

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CinemaSerf
CinemaSerf
Rating 70%

October 10, 2025

Based on a true story; this is a touching and moving story of a couple of young Australian men who fall in love as youngsters in the days before there was any AIDS awareness. Ryan Corr ("Tim") and Craig Matthew Scott ("Tom") are superb as they act out their joyous loving relationship (complete with it's obligatory ups and downs) and then have to face the fact that, 15 years later, one has become terminally ill. We share the traumatic journey, poignantly told as they both try to reconcile themselves to the inevitable. Guy Pearce and Geoffrey Rush star too and Anthony LaPaglia and Camilla Ah Kin play "John"'s parents sensitively - their grief compounded by their perception of the blame lying on his "choices". It is raw and at times horrible to watch - the decline is pretty full-on but none the less watchable and engrossing for that. It's seems odd now that this was an unstoppable disease, but for many of us who were young in the 1970s and 1980s this was just how it happened. The lack of legal status of the partner in the whole process is sickening but thankfully, for many, long changed for the better.

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Holding The Man Official Trailer

Holding The Man Official Trailer

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